The very fact that you are actively looking for a way to forgive your husband for cheating is a major step in the right direction.One of the biggest hurdles to overcome when trying to save your relationship after infidelity is finding the courage within yourself to try and forgive.
If you have recently found out about the affair, my guess is that you feel some, if not all of the following.
Disbelief
Physical and mental pain (nausea and other stress related symptoms)
Shock
Sadness
Anger
Helplessness
Resentful
Feelings of low self worth
Overcoming the avalanche of emotions that threaten to overwhelm you is no mean feat. Amongst this turmoil of emotions, you may or may not have made the decision to try and save your marriage.
Foremost in your mind at this traumatic time will be your marriage, and if it can be saved, but above all, this has to be a time for you.
Forgiveness, although can be achieved, is not something you have to do to move forward.
Approaching the situation with a clear head and a positive course of action is all important.
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