Sometimes just the very thought of trying to patch up the shattered remains of your marriage can be just too much to bear.
It is small comfort, but you are not alone.
Many couples come to a point in their marriage, when after trying to repair the damage with little or no success, the only option left is divorce.
Only you can decide if you can carry on, and only you know if you can live with your choices.
Nobody knows your situation or the circumstances, but it is important to remember that the decision to divorce can often be clouded by the immediate pain you feel. Before you go down the road to divorce, it often helps to try and get your marriage in the best possible shape it can be.
By this I mean with professional help from an impartial objective. Good marriage councillors can give you the best possible opportunity of getting your marriage in the best shape it can be to make the decision to divorce or not. Most good councillors will encourage you to find all that is good in your marriage to help you make an informed choice.
An excellent Survive An Affair course by well known marriage councillor Dr. Frank Gunzburg, Ph.D. is available online, with a 21 part free course option. So even if your partner is unwilling to attend councilling, an insight into what you can do to save your marriage is open to you.
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